I’ve recently decluttered

Do you believe in minimalism?

I hsve a confession to make, I was once a terrible hoarder, but recently have done a fair bit of decluttering because I plan to move soon, and mainly haorded things like letters and cards , clothes and trinkets.  I threw away a lot and gave things to my friends or donated them to the Salvos.  If felt good and freeing to do so. I think it’s ok to be a bit of a hoarder and keep the important and truly sentimental stuff like photos and vinyl records, CD 💿 and books but get rid of the things that hsve served their purpose and you no longer need them. It is nice to keep things like photos or those things given to you by loved 😍 ones.

Profound advice

What’s the most profound piece of advice you’ve been given? Did you take it?

The most profound piece of advice that I’ve been given and took on board was to surround myself with good people.  This advice came from my brother David when I was first diagnosed with my mental illness back in the day.  I took that advice very seriously and now only let people with the very best intentions be a part of my life.  I lost some people from my life around that time, but it was no great loss, they weren’t true friends in the end, now I am surrounded by wonderful people and eternally grateful and gracious for what I have.

Unlimited budget

If you had an unlimited budget for 24 hours, what would you do?

If I had an unlimited budget for 24 hours I would buy some nice furniture for my new place.  I would help pit my nieces and nephews with their mortgages and also help Russell with his. I would give Adrian the deposit for a place of his own and I would give some money to the Olivia Newton John Cancer Centre and the Royal Children’s Hospital. I would also give money for music 🎶 🎵 and art therapy in psychiatric hospitals.

Neil Finn

If you could have dinner with any philosopher, who would it be?

If I could have dinner with anyone I considered to be  philosopher it would be Neil Finn because even though he is a musician and songwriter his songs are often philosophical and he is obviously a deep thinker because he dedicates a lot of energy and support and his abundant wealth to causes around the 🌎 world like poverty, homelessness etc. He has empathy and a compassionate heart ❤️ and today is his birthday

The Meaning Of Life

What is the meaning of life?

To me the meaning of life is about the journey and the values, lessons and wisdom we learn as part of that journey.  Life is all about giving, not taking. We must learn goodwill and that life should be about paying it forward and graciously paying back. We reap what we  sow in this life and goodwill manifests and generates goodwill.  This is what God hopes we learn on our journey by faith in him.

This past couple of weeks

What’s a moment that made you realize you were stronger than you thought?

It has been over the past couple of weeks that I have realised how strong and resilient I really am. Circumstances have forced me to be strong and stay mentally well in the face of major events forcing me to reconsider my housing options. I am vulnerable but I really have got my suit together.

Lily and her displays of affection

What’s a simple pleasure in life that brings you joy?

The most simple pleasure 🙏🏽 in life that brings me the most joy is every morning when Lily firsts gets up for the day ahead and lies on my lap or chest on the couch and showers me with kisses 💋.  She always wakes up happy and with a heart full of love and joy. It is pure bliss. Unconditional love is the best sort of love.

“LIFE’S TOO SHORT FOR BURNING BRIDGES TAKE IT ONE DAY AT A TIME”.

Who would’ve thought that the advice I can most use at the moment is the above quote taken word for word from the Jimmy Barnes song Working Class Man.  Jimmy thank you for helping me get the right attitude.  I don’t think Jimmy realises what a role model he is.

I have had the rug pulled out from under me in relation to my future housing situation.  I am stunned but not defeated. When a door is closed God opens a windows. Perhaps The Haven wasn’t meant to be for me, it could’ve been very challenging living in close quarters with some seriously unwell people.  As my friend Adrian pointed out I have done my job too well, as I hsve stayed well for several years and hsve many strong reasons to keep well to avoid those you come across in a hospital environment.

What does the future hold for me and Lily who knows. Maybe a small cottage with a little yard for Lily. Maybe a retirement unit in a village. I am considering a few different options and my faith in God means that I know he has better plans for me.