Lose track of time

Which activities make you lose track of time?

There are a few activities that can make me lose track of time.

I can lose track of time when I take Lily for her morning walk.

I can lose track of time in the company of good friends,  particularly when there is food and good conversation involved.  Chatting over a good meal is a way of losing time. Good times spent creating good memories are a great way to lose track of time.

Definitely reading a good book is another way that I lose track of time.

Definitely, writing this blog and my other writings are the main ways that I can lose track of time.

Watching a good movie or YouTube clips is a way I spend a lot of time.

Cooking a nice meal is also an activity I can spend time on and shopping at ALDI or shopping for pleasure ๐Ÿ™๐Ÿฝ is another activity that I can lose track of time doing.

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What bothers me

What bothers you and why?

There are a few things that bother me. Obviously, things like man’s inhumanity to man and evil behaviour in general are a big concern. .

I am concerned when people show a lack of empathy and compassion to one another. People who think they are doing the right thing but interfering in another’s karma are actually just generating bad karma for themselves as we all reap what we sow.

Discrimination in its many forms concerns me and injustice as well. People who are judgemental are also a concern.

People who are cruel to animals are another thing that worries me.

A lack of peace in this ๐ŸŒŽ world is something else that bothers me.

10 things I know for certain

List 10 things you know to be absolutely certain.

1. Change is inevitable.  The only constant thing in life is change, so expect it and know nothing stays the same forever.

2. You will experience loss and grief in your life. Death is part of the cycle of life, and you will experience the loss of loved ones on your journey

3. Have faith in a higher power.  I know God exists ๐Ÿ™๐Ÿฝ in my life because I have faith, and there have just been too many things happen in my life that could not be coincident.

4 Be an optimistic person.  Seeing things through a half glass full attitude helps you in your everyday life in your dealings with the ๐ŸŒŽ world. It pays dividends to be an optimistic.

5 Wealth isn’t necessarily financial.  Like me you can be wealthy in terms of quality of relationships and life whilst not necessarily having a vast amount of money.

6 Save for a rainy day. We all must, at some stage, learn to live within our means, and it is wise to learn to save for the special things we want in life. There is pleasure ๐Ÿ™๐Ÿฝ in delayed gratification, and we learn to appreciate what we have more.

7. Being grateful ๐Ÿ™๐Ÿฝ for what we have.  This goes hand in hand of saving for a rainy day. Learning to be grateful for what we have is something that you would hope we all learn as we age.

8 Honesty and loyalty are important.  This speaks for itself. A lot of pain is caused for us when people are not truthful or dishonest. Being genuine and authentic is important and helps to live life without pain or suffering

9 Live life without regrets because we can’t change the past, but we can change how it affects our present and future.  Don’t lament what has happened in the past,because that can’t change so don’t invest precious energy feeling bad about things that have happened in the past, instead invest energy in making the future good.

10 Unconditional love is bliss ๐Ÿ˜Š.  The unconditional love of a child or pet is one of the greatest gifts in life.  I may not have children of my own, but the unconditional love from my nephews and nieces and, of course, from my loyal little dog Lily is the absolute best thing in my life. I know from experience how enriching and meaningful having that kind of love is, so if you have, it enjoy  it because it truly is a gift from God.

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Sam Neill,  Scott Aplin,  Russell, Adrian , Liz and Lani

If you could host a dinner and anyone you invite was sure to come, who would you invite?

If I were to have a dinner party and whoever I invited was sure to come, I would invite Sam Neill, Scott Aplin,  Russell,  Adrian , Liz, and Lani

I would love to share a meal and a wine with Sam Neill and just chew the fat with him,  as I know he would make an interesting dinner guest.  I would love Scott Aplin to come and play the piano for us. He is just do lovely and talented,  and again, he would be interesting to talk to about his career.

Amongst my friends, I would invite Adrian and Russell because they are interesting conversationalists.   I would invite Lani because she is my soul sister, and I  would invite Liz because she is delightful. I am blessed with wonderful friends, and Sam Neill and Scott Aplin are two people in the world that I would like most to meet.

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Good Friendships

What do you think gets better with age?

I think a couple of things get better with age, the most significant is that of good friendships.  Like fine red wine, friendships that are true and lasting become more beautiful and precious with age.

Obviously, fine red wine ๐Ÿท gets better with age as do our memories of a life well lived.  I think of Susanna, whom I painfully grieved for when she passed.  With the passing of time,the pain healed, and now, when I think of her, I feel a warm inner glow and cherish my memories of time spent with her.  So, grief to changes with time and is a part of life we all experience.

I think our wisdom grows and gets better with age.   Wisdom is something that some people develop as they age and is something to be grateful, savoured, and ๐Ÿ˜ loved. I know experience has made me wiser and a better person, and passing on my wisdom is something I find myself expressing more as I age.

I think our appreciation of the simple things in life gets better as we age. Enjoying life’s simple pleasures ๐Ÿ™๐Ÿฝ are something that have more meaning as we grow. Life experiences don’t have to be expensive. Often, pure pleasure can be found in life’s moments that are free. Simple pleasures and gestures are often the most meaningful.

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What time I go to bed and wake up.

What time do you go to bed and wake up currently?

I tend to go to bed around 9.00pm and wake up around 6.00 am. I get out of bed usually between 6.00am and 7.00am. I am a morning person and feel at my most alert and productive in the morning. I also walk Lily in the morning around 7.30 am onwards .

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Practising Mindfulness and snuggling with Lily

What strategies do you use to increase comfort in your daily life?

There are a few strategies I use to increase my comfort in my day to day life.

The first is the practice of mindfulness in my everyday life.   This is something I try to work on on a regular basis.  It is a skill that I am developing.  For instance, last night I woke up around 2.00am. not feeling well, so I deliberately made myself think of something positive,  in this case Lily.  I made myself lie in a comfortable position, and every time I felt distracted and unwell,  I would think of some memory of Lily and try to control my thoughts in that way.  It wasn’t long before I drifted off to sleep.

Actually Lily plays a big part of my day-to-day comfort because there is nothing I like more on these bitterly cold ๐Ÿฅถ winter’s days than curling up on the couch with Lily on my lap cuddling in, watching television or reading, writing my blog or listening ๐ŸŽถ to music.   Lily is so soft and cuddly and is an affectionate little soul, and having her close is the most enjoyable way to spend these cold wet,  Melbourne weather winter days.

Having a coffee โ˜•๏ธ in the morning ๐ŸŒ„ is another thing that I do for comfort. I feel ready to take on the world once I have my coffee โ˜•๏ธ.

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What excites me for the future

What are you most excited about for the future?

The thing that excites me the most about the future is my writing โœ๏ธ both of this blog and my other writings.   This blog is progressing nicely, and I feel proud of both books ๐Ÿ“š I have written, those being God Bless Our Dogs and The Dance Of The Emerald Dress.   I plan on collating all the blog posts ๐Ÿ“ซ that Susanna has  inspired into a collection for her family and friends, and then I plan on writing more for children.   These prospects excite me for the future.  I’ll keep you ๐Ÿ“ซ as to my progress on these.

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