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What do you complain about the most?

What do I complain about the most ? The truth is that I don’t normally complain about things in my life. I am happy, contented, and at peace in my life most of the time.   A large part of this is due to Susanna, who had liver and kidney cancer, but never once complained about her lot in life, although she probably had more right to complain.  Instead, she had a glass half full attitude to life and had a great sense of humour about her predicament.  I think it is better to have an optimistic attitude to life and not complain when things don’t go as planned.  I know several people who constantly complain about the little things in life and never seem grateful ๐Ÿ™๐Ÿฝ for what they have. It is far better to not sweat the small stuff in life, just see everything as part of the journey and be open to learning the lessons of life, instead of bitching about your lot in life. I feel grateful and try not to complain about my lot in life. My journey of life is winding and full of beauty, I want to enjoy the view instead of complaining about it.

What would I do if I won the lotteryhttps://www.google.com/adsense/new/u/0/pub-3691500166505297/privacymessaging

What would you do if you won the lottery?

What would I do if I won the lottery. Probably the first thing I would do is arrange a holiday to New ๐Ÿ‡ณ๐Ÿ‡ฟ Zealand.

I would give a good amount to my nephews and nieces.

I would donate alot to the Olivia Newton John Cancer Centre at the Austin Hospital,  I would also give some money to The Victorian Mental Illness Awareness Council and give alot to Northpark Private Hospital for them to have art and music ๐ŸŽถ ๐ŸŽต therapy every day.  I would help out my friends with their mortgages.  I would give some to So They Can,  the charity that builds schools in Africa.

Books I want to readhttps://www.google.com/adsense/new/u/0/pub-3691500166505297/privacymessaging

What books do you want to read?

There are a few books I want to ๐Ÿ“š read.  My new years resolution is to read ๐Ÿ“š the entire Harry Potter series of books, so that I am up to date with them. I am hoping to borrow the series from my niece.

I am hoping to read some of the books that Sandi Toksvig has written, in particular her children’s literature.

I plan on rereading some Cathy Kelly books and also to reread To Kill A Mockingbird .

At the moment, I am open to recommendations of what blog readers think I should ๐Ÿ“š read. I am open to ideas.

My traditionshttps://www.google.com/adsense/new/u/0/pub-3691500166505297/privacymessaging

Write about a few of your favorite family traditions.

I’ve been thinking about family traditions and I don’t know what traditions my family share,  but I do have  few traditions of my own.

My main tradition is that I silently say grace before every meal myself and Lily have. I thank God for providing me and Lily with enough ๐Ÿ™๐Ÿฝ food to live on and I am genuinely grateful for the food I have.   I started the tradition of saying grace when I was married.

Another tradition is to take Lily for a morning ๐ŸŒ„ walk weather permitting.   This is bonding time for us and I normally feel really great after doing it.

Doing my weekly shop at ALDI is another tradition,.

I also have the tradition of sending my loved ones a good morning ๐Ÿ™๐Ÿฝ ๐ŸŒ„ gif every morning.

Another tradition is to call my friends Adrian and Liz everyday for a quick catch up, as I live on my own I value this contact with my friends, and it means that I don’t become isolated.

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What do you enjoy doing most in your leisure time?

What I enjoy most in my leisure time is to catch up with ๐Ÿงก friends and family.

I love going out for lunch or afternoon tea with friends, going opshopping with Ksthryn or Lani.  I love picnics in the park or exploring places like Williamstown. I love walking along the beach.  I love catching up with my nephews and nieces.  I love to see Evelyn and Mason, my great niece and nephew. I love being able to do these types of things with Lily,  so her world ๐ŸŒŽ becomes bigger than just me. I love quiet time spent reading ๐Ÿ“š a good book.  I love walking Lily  in the morning ๐ŸŒ„ sunshine.

BRIGHThttps://www.google.com/adsense/new/u/0/pub-3691500166505297/privacymessaging

Name an attraction or town close to home that you still haven’t got around to visiting.

The town in my home state of Victoria that I would most like to visit is Bright.  Bright is in the high country and has the reputation of being beautiful,  particularly in the autumn ๐Ÿ‚,  where there are leaves of many colours  on the ๐ŸŒณ trees that Bright is renowned for.   It is the place that I dream of visiting with Lily at some dog friendly bed and breakfast accommodation. I feel that I have missed out because I haven’t seen it yet, it is definitely on my bucket list.

Five things I do for fun.https://www.google.com/adsense/new/u/0/pub-3691500166505297/privacymessaging

List five things you do for fun.

1. Walking or playing with Lily.

2. Writing this blog or doing other forms of writing โœ๏ธ.

3 Goimg opshopping with Kathryn or Lani.

4. Going out for lunch dinner or afternoon tea

5 Reading a good book for pleasure ๐Ÿ™๐Ÿฝ.

If I could make Lily understand one thing what would that behttps://www.google.com/adsense/new/u/0/pub-3691500166505297/privacymessaging

If you could make your pet understand one thing, what would it be?

Todays topic is wonderful for me because I am totally devoted to my little Lily, and I cherish the unconditional love โค๏ธ that we share.  If I could make Lily understand something, it would be that she has a soul and that souls are eternal,  meaning the love we share is forever, and one day, we will be in heaven together for eternity ๐Ÿ’–.   I know I will be devastated when Lily passes, but I am comforted by the thought that she will be at Rainbow Bridge waiting for me, along with my other passed over dogs.

Lily is the most special love in my life, and I try to show her how much I love her and show her I will always love โค๏ธ and protect her from all harm. I think our pets are born with a heart โค๏ธ that understands unconditional love and enjoy spreading the love they are born with.

I do strongly believe that our dogs are angels, gifts ๐ŸŽ given to us by God. I think our dogs have a special relationship with their creator,  God loves them immensely,  sometimes he loves them more than he loves us humans. Dogs definitely are angels. I would like Lily to know she is an angel ๐Ÿ˜‡ that was sent to ๐ŸŒŽ earth by God to spread love and goodwill to all.

Living on my own.https://www.google.com/adsense/new/u/0/pub-3691500166505297/privacymessaging

I have been living on my own since 2012 and although I love โค๏ธ it and value my independence it can get a bit lonely not having someone to talk to about your day and your plans, which is probably why I love Lily so much.

I moved into the place I now live when I left my marriage.   I was put in the position where I had to leave my husband for my well-being. My husband was behaving in ways that were totally against the vows we had made when we married.  We both had mental health issues, but my ex husbands behaviour had become impossible for me to tolerate.  So when I first moved here, it was a culture shock to live on my own. I would have loved to have been a mother, but given that I left my marriage in my early 40s, then went through menopause having children was not in Gods plan for my life. I realised that by being strong and leaving my marriage, I was setting a good example and role model for my nieces., to show them there are some things that no women should put up with.

The best decision I ever made was to get Lily. Her company and devotion are wonderful. Lockdown would have been very isolating without hershe’s really is an angel.

From time to time, it can be a bit lonely living on my own. I keep in touch with my family,  my brothers and my nephews and nieces by sending them good morning gifs and this blog, but I don’t see a lot of them, they are busy with their own lives, so I have become used to valuing my independence and giving Lily the best life possible.  I am blessed with having a great network of friends,  who I regularly keep in touch with. I hope that as I age, I maintain these friendships and that my family will make an effort to include me in their life, as they are my close family.

I am not complaining about my independence as it was hard fought for and won. I just wonder what the future holds for me, and I wonder where I will be five to ten years’ time. God has plans for us all. All going well. I should be moving into some better and permanent accommodation in about a year.  I look forward to this change, it should be the catalyst for big changes in my life.

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What’s your dream job?

My dream job would be to own a shop selling childrens literature and angel relsted merchandise, eg, ornaments and cards.  I would love to own a children’s bookshop where old classics were sold along with modern-day classics.  I would run sessions of storytelling for both children and the young at heart focusing on fantasy childrens literature and urban myths.  I would have displays of illustrations from chlidrens literature and run some art related activities for children.  It would be the ultimate fantasy of what a childrens bookshop could be. It would be a place where childhood is cherished and be loved ๐Ÿ˜ by children and adults alike.