When I reflect on the friendships in my life, particularly with my female friends ๐งก there is sisterhood that binds us. We share the same thoughts, values, and morals. We are intensely loyal and would never trash or destroy another sisters’ relationship. The female friends in my life know that my marriage was trashed by another woman who didn’t care that she was destroying another woman’s marriage by getting involved with a married man provided she got what she wanted, she didn’t care about the damage she caused. It is my very core belief tht you never have relationships with people who are already taken, you never chase another womans man.
My friends ๐งก these days are lovely ๐ people who know what I experienced, and we talk about our sisterhood. We know that there are some people who that do not care if someone is taken and will willingly get involved with someone who should be off-limits. My friends are amazed at what I endured and feel that the whole negative experience of being in a marriage where three people were involved made me a better and far wiser person. I cherish ๐ my female friends and am very selective whom I become friends with. The whole marriage experience is not something I regret. It was the right thing to do at the time, but it was most certainly the right thing to leave when I did. Just like Princess Diana, I couldn’t stay in a marriage where 3 people were involved, not 2. It has made me cautious and wary about the people who I allow to enter my life and only give of myself to the sisterhood of amazing women I have around me. To all my wonderful friends, God bless you ๐๐ฝ as you are the sisterhood that God has placed on ๐ earth. Soul sisters do exist, and my faith has brought you into my life.
Wonderful thoughts and feelings expressed here Kaye.Indeed,most women are very good at forming close and meaningful relationships..this one of the major reasons they were chosen to nurture children.Historically ..women were the backbone of the community, supporting each other while their husbands had to leave to find work or go off to war .A women’s circle was pivotal in helping women get through these times.That is the main reason I either ran women’s groups or joined many,for the support, understanding and emotions women are so good at sharing with each other.Every so called “bad situation” we find ourselves in…either a relationship,marriage or a job…comes with a silver lining of teaching us about our strengths and resilience.
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Thank you Barbara for your kind feedback ๐ ๐๐ฝ
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