Be a gracious “giver”.

If there is any wisdom I would like to express to my readers, it is the importance to be a “giver ” in this world. In a world of give and take, too many people focus on being a “taker”, they all ways ask WIIFM which stands for What’s In It For Me. These people create a vacuum in their lives and literally inhale and draw all energy to themselves. They take so much, that they drain the energy of life and sick it all in. These people are ultimately selfish, and in only taking, they create bad karma for themselves.

If anything, the story of Jesus’s life should teach us the beauty in life, that can be found, when we humbly and graciously learn to give, without the expectation of receiving in return.

My beautiful angel lady Susanna, was one of life’s “givers” who humbly gave her many 🎁 gifts and didn’t expect to receive in return. She gained 🙏 pleasure from giving and she was gracious and humble. Her delight in spreading joy was palpable. She taught me to receive good graciously and never to expect that I earned that generosity.

There are some people I know that do live their lives expecting to be given everything and never give of themselves. They suck the very life-force in and then dont exhale to such an extent that their balloon over inflates and bursts, showering their loved one’s with their neediness. Life comes in waves of giving and receiving and to only take alters this cycle, it is like trying to hold back the tide. Ultimately these people take away the positive energy around them……their loved one’s can only give so much of their own energy before it becomes a drain on them. This unhealthy energy ends up having a negative impact on those constantly giving and creates a reality and destiny that is destructive for those people involved in it. We can generate a negative future, for those we love, by. only taking. Good intentions and good behaviour generate good karma. If you only take from the universe, then the universe gives you back three-fold what you give . Goodwill generates goodwill . I know I have said that many times in past blog 📫 posts. I see evidence of that in my life and I am a keen observer of those around me. I see Gods handiwork in the lives of my loved ones. I see the universe ultimately rewarding good behaviour and I also see the universe giving out some drama in the lives of those whose mission it is to just suck on the teete of life. Some people never learn to give, so the universe gets even with them. Just like the tide comes in and out, the universe gives these takers more of the same until hopefully 🙏 they wake up and learn their lesson. Life will always give you opportunities to learn and grow, you have to be open to these opportunities. Life can be all the richer and create a beautiful masterpiece, if we learn to share our bounty.