LOOK FOR THE GOOD IN LIFE.

Following on from my last post about every cloud having a silver lining, I also believe in looking for the good in people and in situations in my life.

It would be very easy for me with my mental health issues to be negative and pessimistic about life, but I steadfastly refuse to think that way and I go out of my way to be optimistic and a positive force for good in my life. This often means I butt heads with my mother, whom is a pessimist and never sees things from my positive perspective. She is negative towards me no matter what I do in my life, so I have learned the hard way, not to take on board her attitude and live my life in my optimistic happy, positive way.

My friends see me as a strong positive force and Russell in particular, is always saying that I am a strong, positive force of nature that he finds powerful. I consciously look for the good in people and always do find it. I strongly believe that if we look for the good in things, that is what we will find, and that if we look for the bad and negative, then we will find that too. This bring the case isn’t it more fulfilling and pleasurable to see the good in life and strive to find it. Far more bearable and positive than constantly being disappointed with life because you only see bad and horrible occurrences. My specialists also see me as a positive person who thrives through being optimistic.

I am basically a happy person, whom is content with her life and wealthy and blessed in the quality of friendships and relationships with others. I am genuinely grateful for what God has provided me with. Over the past year a long term friendship ended with someone I really cared for, who could not see how her negativity and pessimistic attitude were causing her all sorts of trouble. She resented my optimistic attitide and reaped a lot of heartache for those who were trying to care for her. In the end her negative attitude was so nasty I walked away. She constantly was looking for the bad in everything and being surprised when she found it.

Ive learned the hard way to associate with people with positive and good intentions, as it makes life richer and more fulfilling. If you are a optimistic person like me, listen 🎶 to your gut intsincts. If someone makes you feel good and has good intentions, your gut instincts feel like floating on a breeze that means you are on the same wavelength if someone make your gut muscles tense and your chest constrict be wary, with that type of person, as their lower frequency negativity will clash with your optimism. I have learned the hard way that you can’t change a negative, pessimistic person to become positive and optimistic like yourself. You can’t always avoid this type of person, but you can change how you deal with them. Don’t give a lot of your time and energy to them, limit it and mine for good. The good people in your life are priceless ❤. Dedicate your time and energy to the good people and your life will grow more positive and fulfilling than you could ever imagine.

Life can be beautiful if we look for the good in everything……..