What would your life be like without music?

I can’t imagine a life without music. Music is one of my great loves ❤️ 😍 and I don’t even really want to contemplate a life in which music doesn’t exist. It would be tragic because the beauty and meaning of music 🎶 bring so much joy and feeling to all the human race.

I look back on my life and various memories are tied to particular songs, everything from Neil Finns love anthem to his wife Message To My Girl” to 1927s That’s When I Think Of You ” to Hunters and Collectors 🎵 “Throw Your Arms Around Me” to the Beatles “Let It Be” many , many songs have so much meaning for me, literally hundreds of songs mean a lot to me and are the soundtrack to my life. I’m quite sure everyone else on the plane is the same.

Without music, life as we know it would end. It could never happen because God would never deprive us of something so beautiful and meaningful. Music is my life, my life is music as Marcia Hines once sung. Music is the food of love and those who bring it to us are the tableware.

How do you celebrate holidays?

For the past few years I have celebrated Christmas at my brother Peter’s home. I do try to catch up with the other members of my family at this time as well. I also try to see my closest friends on the lead up to Christmas..

At Easter and other holidays I try to catch up with my loved one’s too. There always seems to be picnics around Australia Day or Cup Day, but honestly since covid these occasions are rare.

Normally I am happy to be a homebody, but I do like to catch up with friends regularly and do things like opshopping and going out for lunch.

Share a lesson you wish you had learned earlier in life.

I wish I had learned earlier in life to 100% trust my gut instincts about people, particularly men. It could’ve saved me a lot of heartache. When I was married, I ignored the red flags and my churning gut instincts that were telling me something was seriously wrong in my marriage. I trusted my husband and fell for the act he was putting on, even though my instincts were screaming at me that my husband was a charlatan.

In the end I trusted my women’s intuition and left the marriage. It was not the first time I had been taken in by a charlatan.

I know to trust my dog Lily. Lily is a lovely little dog, but she doesn’t like every man that crosses our path. I know if Lily seems anxious and upset by different men to be wary. Fortunately the first man Lily met through me was my friend Russell. Russell is amazingly lovely, and the most wonderful man I have ever met. So I believe Lily rates men against Russell, who is just so lovely, that other men don’t rate so well.

I know Lily’s gut instincts are always to protect me, so I pay attention to her and avoid encounters with those she does not trust.

What are your favorite types of foods?

My two favourite types of food are Italian and Indian. Both are unique and both do great vegetarian options. I love pizza and pasta and love the spices and smell of both, particularly Indian. I would love to visit both Italy 🇮🇹 and 🇮🇳 India to immerse myself in the food and culture.

How often do you walk or run?

I do try to walk Lily just about everyday. Sometimes in the warmer months I will endeavour to walk 🚶‍♂️ her twice. I often don’t walk her when it is extremely windy, because of my asthma I find it really hard to breathe in such wind. I like walking her early in the 🌄 morning , before I need to go out and do my errands for the day. Lily is happier to be left at home 🏡 if I have taken her for a walk.

Walking Lily is something that is pure pleasure 🙏 for us both, and deepens our bond.

Do you see yourself as a leader?

I don’t know whether I consider myself a leader, but I guess other people have labelled me a leader for the work I undertook in the mental health system here in Victoria. I know I helped a lot of people on their journey, by using my own experience as a guide. I educated a lot of people about the realities of mental health issues, and taught empathy and compassion by displaying those qualities in myself.

I think by writing ✍️ a blog I educate even more people and lead the way for people like myself to express themselves creatively.

What’s your favorite word?

My favourite word in the English language would have to be GRACE. I love it in particular for what it means, becomingness and attractiveness of demeanour, the way a person carries themselves with a sense of GRACE. The GRACE of God is something I truly 🙏 love because living with Gods grace is something wonderful 🙏.

I have a niece called Grace and she lives up to her name in her demeanour and attractiveness and definitely carries herself with a sense of Grace. She is beautiful and compassionate and it has been a joy to watch her grow up to the amazing lady she has become.

Grace is definitely my favourite word.

May we all know the Grace of God.

What are you doing this evening?

After I have dinner later this afternoon I will be unwinding with Lily laying on the couch with me, watching YouTube clips and Mother and Son on the ABC. I lead a very simple quiet life .

What personality trait in people raises a red flag with you?

I really had to sit with and think about today’s topic before I wrote a blog post 📫 about it.

What raises red flags with me, and makes me cautious and wary is when someone is very reactionary and responds angrily or negatively without thinking about their words and actions and the impact that has on the person they are responding to.

I find myself becoming fearful 😰 of these people and definitely become wary of them. I have learned from experience to be mindful of this in myself, and should I be put in an unpleasant situation where someone has treated me badly I have trained myself to not react on the spot, but to go away and contemplate what is the best way to approach it, and respond only after I have given lots of serious thought about things. I may approach and speak to some fellow empaths in my life for their advice and take on things, before I again approach the person whom has been inappropriately reactionary.

Describe your ideal week.

The mornings of my ideal week would be sunny, fresh and crisp, the most lovely weather to walk Lily in.

I would have a lot ofW time in this week to focus on my writing ✍️ as a priority, as well as having the motivation to continue spring cleaning my unit.

I would catch up with family and friends in this week. I would get to spend quality time with my nieces and nephews. I would go opshopping with Kathryn and pick up some vintage bargains.

I would sell several copies of God Bless Our Dogs and have Dance Of The Emerald Dress 👗 ready to self publish.

What I like about this daydream week is that it can definitely possibly happen. It is healthy to daydream about your goals.