OPSHOPPING VINTAGE AND DESIGNER CLOTHES

If there is anything that I truly love (other than Lily), it is the experience of opshopping at charity stores like the Salvos and St. Vinnies.

I first developed this obsession in my early 20s when I was obsessed with rock’n’roll dancing and wanted to wear the clothes from the 40s, 50s, and 60s.ย  I would go to trendy opshops and buy things like dresses and cardigans from that era.ย  As I was a uni student, funds were limited, so I would choose classic pieces wisely.ย  I also had a wonderful mother who was an excellent seamstress, and she would make me dresses ๐Ÿ‘— , blouses, and skirts from that era that were individual, meaning no one else had them

I will let you in on a little secret of mine from that time. I did love the style of Laura Ashley and Country Road at that time but there was no way I could usually afford that style,  so I would save up and about once or twice a year I would visit Laura Ashley or Country Road’s clearance centre in Richmond and buy myself one piece of their clothing, be it a skirt or blouse or ๐Ÿ‘— dress and wear these with the genuine vintage piece or the pieces my mother made for me.  When you have limited funds, this mishmash of second-hand vintage and designer clothes is the way to go. Think of Molly Ringwald’s character of Andie Walsh in Pretty In Pink, and you have my inspiration in my own way.  Fashion doesn’t have to cost a fortune, and you can find excellent value for money if you are willing to second-hand hand clothes.  Some of my more lovely finds as a young lady came from vintage stores around Prahran or South Yarra, Camberwell etc.  Be prepared to go fossicking for clothes in different places,  take a friend and make a day of it, and have a nice lunch on the way and chat about your wonderful vintage finds. Not only are you investing in your wardrobe, you are supporting some pretty wonderful  charities along the way. Shop to you drop and enjoy.

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I have just watched one of the most genuinely funny witty and clever half hours of television that makes me proud to be Australian.

The program that I watched was Spicks and Specks which is a comical music trivia show that aims in Australia on the ABC and iview

Today’s episode of Spicks and Specks was particularly notable because our Prime Minister the honourable Anthony Albanese was on the panel. His appearance on this program shows he has a good sense of humour and doesn’t take himself too seriously. He also showed just what a knowledgeable man he is when it comes to Australian ๐ŸŽถ music..  Spicks and Specks has a history for the talent that comes on the program and for being one of the most genuinely interesting funny and clever programs that the ABC produce.  It hosted by Adam Hills who would have to be the most versatile funny man on television. I dare you to watch Spicks and Specks or the other show he hosts called the Last Leg and not be laughing so hard at his talent that tears fall from your eyes.

I would recommend to everyone that they should try to watch Spicks and Specks on iview or whatever streaming service you are on.  It shows that our wonderful national broadcaster can produce great programming on a limited budget.  If you don’t believe this to be true, you obviously haven’t seen programs like The Recording Studio,  Wakefield,  Love On The Spectrum,  The Assembly etc, and the list goes on.

Spicks and Specks keeps its programming fresh and up to date and if you like your humour witty and clever it is a must see. It genuinely makes me laugh and smile and definitely is a antidepressant.  Watch and enjoy.

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What are you most proud of in your life?

The thing that I am most proud of in my life is my past career in mental health, where I assisted many people with similar issues to my own. I’m proud of the fact that I made a conscious decision to study welfare studies and directly use my experience in a peer support role to help people with mental health issues.  Although  i  no other longer work in the field I am proud of my past career and know that experience guides me through my life and definitely is one of the reasons I now write, believing that by my writing I can enlighten and educate people about the reality of living with mental health issues. I see this as my life purpose and that I am called upon to do this type of work.

I am also proud of my writing โœ๏ธ skills and love to hone them writing โœ๏ธ a blog regularly as well as working on my other works of writing.

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What have you been working on?

There are a few things I am working on at present.  I guess I am a bit of a mutitasker

The first thing I have been working on is this blog, and hopefully soon, I will feel motivated to work on my book about Susanna and heaven called The Angel Lady.

As I am writing this blog I am also cooking some meals for the week.  It saves time to cook for a few meals at once.

I also plan to do a bit more decluttering today as I plan next year to move to somewhere smaller and being a hoarder I need to seriously work out what I need to keep and what I can do away with. Again, I do this whilst I am doing other things, so yes, I am a multitasker.

I don’t like gambling

Whatโ€™s something most people donโ€™t know about you?

Something that most people don’t know about me is that I don’t like gambling.ย ย  In my past I have gambled a little bit on the pokies and also would have a bet on the Melbourne Cup , but that was many years ago,and I only did so to be social, because I was with friends and family who liked to gamble.ย  It has been several years now since I gambled, and I honestly believe there are better things to do with money than to gamble it away. I live on such limited money that it is wise for me not to gamble.ย  The money I could gamble I save in my investment account, and that is a far better use for it than to gamble it.

I also recently gave given up drinking alcohol ๐Ÿธ.  I was never a big drinker,  but there is a genetic history of alcoholism in my family and even though I am certainly not an alcoholic I am supporting my family by not drinking.  I never needed alcohol to feel good, I am naturally high on life and want to remain as healthy as possible for as long as possible.

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Do lazy days make you feel rested or unproductive?

I have something to confess. I have one lazy pyjama day once a week, usually at the weekend. Spending the day in my pyjamas helps me to kick back and relax and does help me to feel productive because it is usually on that day that I spend the morning cooking a number of meals for the week ahead.  These days make me feel rested and give me the energy for the week ahead, I also feel productive because of the cooking I do.  I also focus on giving Lily a lot of attention, and she now knows the drill and has her own little routines for the different days of the week. I love โค๏ธ my lazy pyjama days. They help with my mindfulness and mental health, too.

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I am writing โœ๏ธ this post today because I am spending some time with one of my NDIS support workers who takes me to my appointment .  I am happy with the ladies who are rostered on to support me. I have become friends with 2 of my support workers who are compassionate and empathic and have a warm, friendly nature.  I enjoy having NDIS support because I get to choose how this support best meets my needs. Just about every support worker I have had has been lovely.   These support workers are we even wonderful when I am unwell.  They still give me support and care for me when I am unwell and don’t judge me.  It takes a special person to work in this role. You have to be both flexible and caring and want your client to lead their best life.  I am happy to call 2 of my support workers friend as they are positive people and are optimistic about their role. You have to be a good role model, and these 2 ladies certainly are.  I am happy overall with my support.

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What principles define how you live?

The principles that define how I lived are based on my faith. I am a Christian at heart and firmly believe that we should do onto others as we would have others do onto us. I believe in spreading goodwill in this world ๐ŸŒŽ as part of my faith.  I believe that God created us all to be equal on this earth.  I believe that goodwill can defy all sorts of evil and that it is our role as humans to spread goodwill and respect Gods rule and to fight the evil doers on this earth.  Goodwill and Gods love can reign on this earth ๐ŸŒŽ and if we learn to love our fellow humans and act lovingly accordingly, we will overcome evil. I try to act out my faith in my day to day life and try to treat everyone as my equal.  These are the principles that guide my everyday life.  I live by my faith. It is who I am at my very core.

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What have you been putting off doing? Why?

There was something I was putting off doing, and all is well.

This morning, I was sleeping in a little on this lazy Saturday morning when I heard the sounds of Lily being sick in my bedroom where she sleeps. As I got up, I noticed that she had vomited on the floor and was looking at me very sheepishly as she must have thought she was in trouble. I gave her a cuddle and cleaned up her mess, and let her just lie in bed recovering.  I didn’t call the vet because I wanted to monitor her to see if it continued.  All’s well that ends well. Lily got up about an hour later and has eaten her breakfast and a treat and has kept it down and is her usual happy contented self. I know that I don’t need to call the vet. She is rarely sick and always bounces back. All’s well that ends well.

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When was the first time you really felt like a grown up (if ever)?

The first time I felt like a grown-up was when I got to vote in a federal election here in Australia about 10 days after my 18th birthday. In Australia, voting is compulsory for everyone 18 years old and above. At the time, I was studying politics as part of my VCE,  and I was really passionate about voting and really took an interest in Australian politics.

The other time I felt grown up was when I moved out of home to share a house ๐Ÿ  with a friend.  Being responsible for our own rent, bills, and food is a great thing to learn and teaches you how to budget your finances and live within your means.  I would recommend this to every young person. It makes you financially responsible and teaches you what life is really all about. I truly felt like an adult when I moved out, and it was a good learning curve for me.