It is July halfway through the year, and I think that as all New Year’s resolutions are long forgotten about we should attempt to have some new resolutions for the mid-year. Today is the first day of the rest of my life and I intend to stick by my half-year resolutions of declutter my place and getting ready to move sometime in the not too distant future.

Today is significant because I am going op-shopping with Kathryn and I am looking for something to put away for my move. I am looking for angel-related things and am happy to wait for exactly the right thing.  I will be seriously downsizing and still need to work out what to do with my portable air-conditioner,  my outdoor setting and exercise bike etc. I need to act on these things probably sooner, rather than later.   My mid-year resolution is to get my act together and stop procrastinating.  It is a good day to make a fresh start and I am looking forward to catching up with Kathryn this morning.   I will keep you posted as to the progress of my mid-year resolutions 

There is one golden rule I follow in regards to what I will put online abd write about in my blog or post on social media.  That is I never publish anything that would upset or negatively impact my grandparents.

It is the golden rule that I learned whilst studying a few law subjects at uni.  That rule was to never publish or post 📫 anything online that you would be embarrassed for your grandparents to see.  When you think about it, it is a very good rule of thumb. I am not on Facebook by choice and I am careful and diligent about what I write about in this blog.  There are just some subjects that are so personal and not for public consumption.   I am careful what I post about my friends 🧡 and my family.  There is just something that I don’t need broadcast to the world.  I am happy to write about the good stuff, the positive optimistic stuff, but there are some things that I am very private about and keep to myself.  I don’t post photos online, it is a minefield of what you must get permission about to do such.

I am careful about what I express in my blog and try to only write stuff that I would be proud for my loved ones to see.

If you are concerned about your online presence think before you publish.  Is this something I want to broadcast to the 🌎 world and would I be worried if my grandparents stumbled across it?  If you would be embarrassed then don’t post it, choose wisely what you write.

I’m writing ✍️ this today b because last night I had yet another dream about someone from my past. It is always in the middle of the night that I dream of her.  It is always a waking dream and I wake up feeling frustrated because this person is someone from my past, that caused me a lot of grief and worry and I know I would never let her back into my life. Before Susanna passed over, she begged me to have this person leave my life. Susanna had seen the impact of this person on my life, and wanted me to be free from the pain she inflicted on me,making me mentally unwell.  I intend to honour Susanna’s wishes until my final days because Susannas wishes 🙏🏽 came from a place of love.

Dreams are strange things. They are our unconscious speaking to us and often have profound meaning.  I dream a lot about that ex friend, it is like my mind is reminding me of the impact on my life this friend had. I do still dream of Susanna too, normally sweet, positive dreams that are my subconscious reminding me of what a wonderful person Susanna was.

As frustrating as some dreams can be, they can also be a warning system, that alerts us and makes the knowledge of the subconscious known, and serves as a reminder of events that have impacted us greatly.  It is in the early hours of the morning,  after these waking dreams, that I consciously remind myself to never go through those painful experiences again. In my heart, I reaffirm the decision I made to honour Susanna’s wishes and never open myself up to such grief and pain in my future.  As annoying as the dreams can be, they do serve a greater purpose.  Don’t ignore your dreams they are another way that God and our loved ones communicate with us.

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I had a very beautiful and tranquil start to today. Neil Finn was doing a musical livestream from his home in New Zealand and it was just such a heartwarming, peaceful and serene start to my day. It was available to those fans who a members of the Private Universe website. It was just Neil with an acoustic guitar and a microphone.  He was softly spoken, polite and played requests from fans online the 🌎 world over. At one stage when he was singing Fall At Your Feet, a beautiful love song I put the phone close to Lily’s ear and it was so obvious that Lily loved it. Lily has very definite likes and dislikes when it comes to music, but I think she loved how quiet and serene it was.

I would recommend that if you love all things Finn related from Crowded House to Split Enz,  Fleetwood Mac and beyond it is well worth joining Private Universe for the community and benefits given to the members.  I now no longer need to leave my own home to go to a concert.  Neil brings the concert from his surroundings to yours. I will be avidly tuning in for more in the future.