What makes you nervous?
The last time I answered this question I focused on my professional life and public speaking.
As a woman, particularly a woman who lives on her own, there are a few things that make me feel vulnerable, and I live within certain boundaries to keep myself and Lily safe. Things like not giving out my phone number, address, or email address to anyone I don’t know. If someone just knocks on the door out of the blue, I don’t answer it. Lily is a good little watch dog and let’s me know if anyone is around. She is a good judge of character and doesn’t like a lot of men. She doesn’t like the energy that some men give off. I am nervous about some men because of some bad past experiences. When I have been unwell and in hospital, I have had some very unwell men throw light lighters at me and start to undress in front of me. I have always managed to keep myself safe, and that is why I set strict boundaries for myself as a vulnerable woman and am very careful about who I let in my life. To this end, I restrict my use of social media and am not on platforms like Facebook.