FINDING A TRUE PRINCE

I’m writing ✍️ this blog post to my unattached readers who a looking for a true partner or prince in their life. My words of advice come from experience and a good place.

My first word of advice is to trust your gut, and if your gut is telling you to be wary of a person to trust that instinct. If things seem too good to be true, trust that feeling and hold off getting too attached to that person. If things seem to be too good to be true, often it is that way. Take time getting to know a person, and don’t get involved too quickly with someone you don’t know. Truly good relationships start out as friends, because you take the time to get to know soneone, before you jump in and take the step of starting a relationship. I had a relationship with someone who chased me for a good two years before we got involved. This person was obsessed with me and kept pursuing me to eventually I gave in. This person promised me the 🌎 world, yet when they had me, started to treat me terribly and treated me like I was inferior and crap. So if things with this person seem wonderful, in the lead up to a relationship, then change overnight once you get involved, then be strong and prepared to walk away. We all desrve better, so walk away before having your sense of self worth damaged.

Another thing high on my list of priorities, is to watch how this person treats your pets . If this person doesn’t instantly treat your pet with love and kindness beware. This goes even more strongly if you have children from a past relationship. I know from painful experience that if someone doesn’t love 💔 love your pet as much as you do and in fact acts jealous of the love ❤️ you have for your pet, be very wary indeed. As I don’t have kids of my own I can only guess that if your new partner doesn’t like the fact that your kids are number one in your life, walk away and choose your children’s welfare as your priority.

Always look for people who are honest, and particularly if people have baggage from a past relationship, look for people who are honest about their baggage and issues from day one.

I guess my main advice in relationship’s is to trust your gut instincts and look for people who are honest and decent. Don’t settle for second best and don’t be pressured into getting involved with anyone before you are ready. Tread softly and lightly where your heart is concerned and don’t rush into anything in the heat of the moment. Let yourself enjoy the courtship, and romance. Far better to enjoy being flirted with, and enjoy that special time, than run the into a relationship with some stranger who treats you terribly once you are involved. If seen one too many friends rush into relationship only to find out that their prince, turned into a cane toad overnight.

Most of all if you practice healthy self esteem and treat yourself with respect 🙏, sorting out the princes from the cane toads becomes easier as we tend to reap what we sow. Enjoy the courtship rituals and don’t be in a hurry. Far better to be with a prince, who offers to walk 🚶‍♂️ your dog with you, than someone who feels the dog 🐕 is their competition. Choose someone who strives to be a good part in your life, not someone who is looking for another name in their black book.